Building Your Life

Building Your Life

Life is a Journey

We are focusing the month of March brainstorming what makes us feel alive. When we do things that make us feel happy and alive we are building positive meaning in our lives and those around us.

 So far we have focused on the following:
1. What makes us feel alive? How do we apply these events in our lives?
2. Live life with a meaning. Being alive means your life is fulfilling a meaning.
3. Are you alive in your career? You spend a great deal of your life working. Your career should make you feel alive.
4. Appreciate your life and reflect each moment with positive thoughts

Today we are going to focus on targeting our lives as our own. What we should not do is live our life to please others. Define our lives to what others think we should be. Your life should be what you want it to be.

Diversity is a good thing and each of us are supposed to be unique, one of a kind, our own personal characteristics. Your life should be yours to own, build, and create.

This means we reflect on who we are regularly what parts of ourselves we want to improve, change, or enhance.

Do not live your life in fear. For those that are aging do not worry about the end. I am in my late forties and some consider me young, and others consider me old. To really live life I have to stay focused on giving my life meaning, continue to improve, and be alive.

Spend some time today and reflect on how you are building your life. Are you doing it for you or are you doing it for others?




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